My father died, the paramedics laid him out in bed. As ‘big’ sister I had to call my brother home to my parents house, I just told him it was urgent but when his boss refused his request to leave work I had to tell him why. He left straight away and came home, visibly upset, leant over my father and air escaped in the form of a snore. My brother shouted at me because he thought he wasn’t dead. My brother was then given a disciplinary warning for leaving work!