A 24 year old with whom I worked stayed at his house in his sky blue coffin, with the lid by his side. His friends and family came around to talk to him and write their comments on the lid so that he could read them when it was put on. It was the drive down the high street of his town, with his quad bike driven by his brother at the ‘head of the procession’ – brilliant! Lovely way to say goodbye to him.