Nearly three years ago my brother (who looks so similar to me to the extent his father in law mistook me for him), was killed on his motorcycle when a car pulled out in front of him. Also my father died this December fairly quickly and suddenly of cancer. What seems to perplex my family is my lack of interest in their possessions. I just don’t want or need things to remember them. This seems to cause some form of disquiet or upset for my family. I just think we all need to respond in the way we feel comfortable.